Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart by William J. Doherty

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Synopsis

Today's divorce epidemic reflects the rise of many social forces that can pull even the happiest couple apart. In fact, many of us hold deeply ingrained attitudes and assumptions that work against long-term marital happiness. From renowned family therapist Dr. William J. Doherty, this book helps couples pinpoint hidden marital problems and take positive steps to stay close and connected every day. Readers learn to break free of such common traps as confusing desires with needs, applying a trade-in-the-old-model consumer mentality to one's own spouse, or becoming overtime parents instead of full-time partners. They get suggestions for creating relationship rituals that stand the test of time; from mundane to celebratory, sexy to silly. For young couples who want to hold tight to happily-ever-after, or longtime marrieds on the brink of breakup, this book shows how to fight back to restore a marriage worth saving.

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A family therapist identifies overwork, consumerism, and overemphasis on personal fulfillment as major factors that pull couples apart. He shows young and long-term couples how to assess their own marital health, identify social pressures most destructive to them, and take active steps to stay connected. He explains how to break free of assumptions that work against long-term marital happiness, and offers suggestions for creating relationship rituals for closeness and celebration. He also discusses the problem of unintentional sabotage from family and counselors, and tells how choose a marriage counselor. Doherty is professor and director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. Annotation c. Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)

Biography

William J. Doherty, PhD, is Professor and Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. Past President of the National Council on Family Relations, Dr. Doherty was named one of America's 10 most innovative therapists by the Utne Reader. His numerous books include Take Back Your Kids.