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In TINSEL, Hank Stuever turns his unerring eye for the idiosyncrasies of modern life to Frisco, Texas, a suburb at once all-American and completely itself, to tell the story of the nation’s most over-the-top celebration: Christmas.
Stuever starts the narrative as so many start the Christmas season: standing in line with the people waiting to purchase flat-screen TVs on Black Friday. From there he follows three of Frisco's true holiday believers as they navigate through the Nativity and all its attendant crises. Tammie Parnell, an eternally optimistic suburban mom, is the proprietor of "Two Elves with a Twist," a company that decorates other people's big houses for Christmas. Jeff and Bridgette Trykoski own that house every town has: the one with the visible-from-space, most awe-inspiring Christmas lights. And single mother Caroll Cavazos just hopes that the life-affirming moments of Christmas might overcome the struggles of the rest of the year. Stuever's portraits of this happy, megachurchy, shopariffic community are at once humane, heartfelt, revealing – and very funny.
TINSEL is a compelling tale of our half-trillion-dollar holiday, measuring what we we've become against the ancient rituals of what we've always been.
This is the consummate "Young Writer Discovers Middle America" book (or rediscovers, given that Stuever appears to be from Oklahoma, poor guy). By and large Stuever pulls it off, in part because he eschews (most) condescension and embraces these happy, bustling Christianized Texans for what they really are, not what he thinks they ought to be.
More Reviews and RecommendationsHank Stuever is an award-winning pop culture writer for The Washington Post's Style section. He is the author of Off Ramp, an essay collection, and has appeared on Today, The View, the CBS Early Show and National Public Radio. Visit his website at hankstuever.com.
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December 30, 2009: Hank Stuever follows the lives of 3 families through the Christmas Season. He has chosen totally different personalities and lifestyles to follow. He examines the "marketing" of Christmas and how far we have strayed from the original meaning of Christmas. Mr. Stuever, at the same time, is very witty and there are many amusing paragraphs in this book. It is enjoyable to read, but, at the same time, challenges us to rethink the ways in which our own family celebrate the holidays.
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December 27, 2009: All right. I admit to a certain point of view, as a transplant to Dallas from the Midwest so many years ago that I'm flirting with being considered a native Texan. Early on, it's the surface that seems to matter more here. The biggest, newest, shiniest of everything. The Mary Kay effect. The cosmetic surgery. The largest, tallest buildings outlined in lights or argon gas. Never mind the shiny car is leased, not owned; the faces have been altered temporarily or permanently under the cover of big hair; that big imposing structure is laden with asbestos in addition to monumental debt. So it is not so shocking to read the most memorable, and probably the truest, observation of Tammie Parnell, the home decorator in Tinsel, "Fake is OK here."
The author spent much of three Christmas seasons embedded with three Frisco families to study the behavior, beliefs, traditions and habits of Friscans during the holidays. There is Tammie, the transformer of McMansions into holiday splendor for roughly $1,000 for a day's work; the Trykosis, whose household is illuminated with tens of thousands of lights and viewed by thousands of passengers in idling SUVs, not to mention YouTube viewers around the country; and Caroll, the single mom who finds hope and inspiration in the preaching of her megachurch pastor. I laughed out loud through many of the passages in this book, all the while feeling a kind of sadness for the desperation so many exhibit in their quest for an ideal holiday season to match their perfect lives, raising children who don't experience the denial of any material good or positive reinforcement while in the womb of their parents' homes. The author tells these stories as a reporter would, through observations and the words of the people he has selected to study. The conclusions and judgements you form when reading Tinsel will be entirely yours. He reports, and you decide. Along the way, you'll find it hard to resist the author's constant wit and charm.