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A guide to understanding and surviving every aspect of infidelityfrom the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage.
More Reviews and RecommendationsWillard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D., and his daughter, Jennifer Harley Chalmers, Ph.D., are licensed psychologists and marriage counselors. Dr. Harley is the author of the best-selling His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-proof Marriage.
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April 24, 2008: This book is based on the fact the the spouse who really cares about the marriage -- the betrayed spouse -- is going to have to do the majority of the work in repairing the marriage. The unfaithful spouse is usually neither willing nor able. That may not be fair, but that's just how it is.
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March 19, 2008: This book alleviates guilt on the cheating spouse and assigns it to the betrayed spouse. It also places most of the responsibility for making changes to restore the marriage on the betrayed spouse and encourages the betrayed spouse to not show any anger or act in any way that might upset the cheating spouse and cause them to go back into the affair. Ludicrous!