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Are you your own worst enemy? Are you devastated by criticism? Do you have trouble telling your loved ones what you really need? If you said yes, you're a victim of low self-esteem.
Learn to be your own best friend! This easy, step-by-step program can start changing that today! You can radically improve the way you feel about yourself and discover an attractive, confident, and happier you.
Self-Esteem is the ultimate self-help book--the only book that fully deals with the one most important element to building true happiness and success: positive self-esteem. It provides breakthrough insights and a wealth of simple, fun exercises that will radically improve the way readers feel about themselves.
More Reviews and RecommendationsMatthew McKay, Ph.D., is the codirector of Families in Transition and the Haight Ashbury Psychological Services in San Francisco. He is coauthor of The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, Thoughts and Feelings, Messages, The Divorce Book, and Self-Esteem. He received his Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology and serves on the faculty of the Wright Institute in Berkeley, CA.. In private practice, he specializes in the cognitive behavioral treatment of anxiety, anger, and depression.
Patrick Fanning is a professional writer in the mental health field and the founder of a men's support group in Northern California. He is the coauthor of eight self-help books, including: Messages, Self-Esteem, Thoughts and Feelings, and Couple Skills
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August 17, 2009: Self Esteem is a self-help book for the "regular" person. It is offered as "do-it-yourself" therapy w/o the therapist, although I really feel a therapist would help a great deal in explaining a lot of the reasons the book offers as to why we have such low opinions of ourselves. I needed to re-read the chapters several times to understand some of the concepts, but then, I am not a therapist or psych major who would be more familiar with the reasoning behind these explanations. This is not a quick fix type of book and involves a lot of time and dedication to be successful in building the readers' self-esteem, let alone the constant practicing of the concepts to ensure the concepts "work" and take hold. I think this book would work best for the reader when done in a program with a therapist.
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December 15, 2008: Each individual manifests self-esteem, or the lack of it, differently. Generally, people with strong self-esteem had parents who nurtured them constantly during their early childhood, while those with low self-esteem often did not. Can people with low self-esteem build it as adults? Yes, because self-esteem is how you feel about yourself, and your thoughts control your feelings. If you take command of your thoughts, you can take command of your feelings, including your sense of self. In this fine book on self-esteem, Matthew McKay and Patrick Fanning show you how to banish regressive ?stinking thinking? and the nasty inner critic that inevitably tries to flatten your self-esteem. You can use their instructive ?cognitive techniques? to elevate your self-esteem, develop self-assurance and feel better about yourself. getAbstract finds McKay and Fanning?s book warm and practical. If their self-esteem is high, there?s a good reason.