List of Contributors     ix
Editor's Acknowledgments     xix
Foreword   Jackson Katz     xxi
Introduction   Shira Tarrant     1
Masculinity and Identity     7
Introduction     9
Daytona Beach: Beyond Beats and Rhymes   Byron Hurt     17
The Real Slim Shady   Ryan Heryford     24
The Enemy Within: On Becoming a Straight White Guy   Jacob Anderson-Minshall     30
Redefining Manhood: Resisting Sexism   Ewuare X. Osayande     36
Straight Guys Can Dance, Too   Jared Margulies     40
Stepping Out of Bounds   Nathan Einschlag     43
Hombres y Machos   Alfredo Mirande     47
Sexuality     57
Introduction     59
Just a John? Pornography and Men's Choices   Robert Jensen     64
Staring at Janae's Legs   Hugo Schwyzer     70
Trying to Be Sexy and Anti-Sexist...at Exactly the Same Time   Andrew Boyd     74
Bye-Bye Bi? Bailey, Biphobia, and Girlie-Men   Marcus C. Tye     80
Darker Shades of Queer: Race and Sexuality at the Margins   Chong-suk Han     86
Let Us Be Seen: Gay Visibility in Homophobic Poland   Tomek Kitlinski   Pawel Leszkowicz     94
How We Enter: Men, Gender and Sexual Assault   B. Loewe     98
Feminism     103
Introduction     105
How Two Aspiring Pornographers Turned Me Into the Ultimate F Word   Hank Shaw     113
Exposed in Iraq: Sexual Harassment and Hidden Rank Structure of the U.S. Army   Marshall Thompson     124
Why I Am Not a Feminist   Haji Shearer     131
Preaching to the Choir   Matthue Roth     136
The Starbucks Intervention   Greg Bortnichak     147
This Is What a Feminist Looks Like   Derrais Carter     151
From Oppressor to Activist: Reflections of a Feminist Journey   Amit Taneja     154
It's Just Common Sense   Brandon Arber     163
Points and Perspectives     165
Introduction     167
Abandoning the Barricades: or How I Became a Feminist   Michael S. Kimmel     171
Confessions of a Premature Pro-Feminist   Rob Okun     182
Learning From Women   Bob Lamm     190
A Tribute to My Father   Chris Dixon      196
Playground Vertigo   Jeremy Adam Smith     202
Judging Fathers: The Case for Gender-Neutral Standards   Donald N.S. Unger     206
What's Wrong With Fathers' Rights?   Michael Flood     212
Engendering the Classroom: Experiences of a Man in Women's and Gender Studies   Kyle Brillante     219
Gender in Jakarta: Lessons on Discourse and Disparity   Bryan Talbot Morris     227
Taking Action, Making Change     233
Introduction     235
Sport, Strong Women, and Feminist Epiphanies   Richard Pringle     238
Violation   Eli Hastings     246
Steel-Toed Boots   Tal Peretz     251
Men's Manifesto   Ben Atherton-Zeman     258
Breaking the Silence One Mile at a Time   Grantlin Schafer     261
Being a Social Justice Ally: A Feminist's Perspective on Preventing Male Violence   Jonathan Ravarino     264
Good Ol'Boy: A Tale of Transformation in the Rural South   Jay Poole     272
How Can I Be Sexist? I'm an Anarchist!   Chris Crass     276
Bibliography     285
Index     291