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(Paperback - 10th Anniversary Edition)
"Alternately playful and realistic, Emberley's . . . art reinforces
Harris's message that bodies come in all sizes, shapes, and colors — and that each variation is 'perfectly normal.'" — PUBLISHERS WEEKLY (starred review)
When young people have questions about sex, real answers can be hard to find. Providing accurate, unbiased answers to nearly every imaginable
question, from conception and puberty to birth control and AIDS, IT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL offers young people the information they need — now more than ever — to make responsible decisions and to stay healthy. Already used as a trusted resource in twenty-five countries around the world (and translated into twenty-one languages), IT'S PERFECTLY NORMAL marks its tenth anniversary with a thoroughly updated edition that includes the latest information on such topics as birth control, hepatitis, HIV, and adoption, among others. This definitive new edition also reflects the recent input of parents, teachers, librarians, clergy, scientists, health professionals, and young readers themselves.
In this intelligent, amiable and carefully researched book, Harris ( Before You Were Three ) frankly explains the physical, psychological, emotional and social changes that occur during puberty--and the implications of these changes. Taking a conversational, relaxed tone, Harris also discusses such subjects as sexual orientation, sexual reproduction, pregnancy, birth control, sexually transmitted diseases and sexual abuse. The author intentionally and effectively repeats certain crucial information, especially on the subject of the possible consequences of sexual intercourse. Alternately playful and realistic (and occasionally graphic), Emberley's ( Ruby ) watercolor-and-pencil art reinforces Harris's message that bodies come in all sizes, shapes and colors--and that each variation is ``perfectly normal.'' Cartoon panels illustrate various complicated processes (e.g., menstruation, the fertilization of an egg, childbirth). Appearing on each spread are two characters--an easy-going bird and an apprehensive bee--whose comments add levity to this solid volume. Ages 10-14. (Sept.)
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July 24, 2008: No book is a substitute for open lines of communication with your child about sex (and everything else). However, this is an absolutely wonderful book that your child can use independently. She can look at the information that she wants in any particular phase of her development and ignore the rest. Then her questions will change as she matures and other parts of the book will interest her more. An essential tool for parents who want to stave off the detachment and isolation that teen years often lead to. Having this book in your home sends the message to your kid that you are ready and willing to acknowledge that teens, like all people, are sexual beings. That does not mean that they must be sexually active. In fact, they are less likely to make mistakes if they have adequate information and parental support. Buy this book. Put it on a shelf in your bookcase that your child uses regularly. She will know where it is when she wants it. When she reaches the stage where she should have access to condoms, make sure they're in the medicine chest. A child who feels that her parents trust her and know that she will be making her own decisions is much more likely to seek out and seriously consider parental guidance about sex, drugs, alcohol, and all the rest of it.
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October 18, 2007: I bought this book for my 13 year old grandaughter because she had so many questions about boys and changes that were happening to her body. This book took very difficult subjects and put it into plain english that any child could understand. I have recommended this book over and over to parents and grandparents for their little ones. I am concerned with where our young people get their information and this was an excellent source for understanding some of the do's and do not's for adolescents.