How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker by Janis Spindel

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Synopsis

The hardest part about dating is understanding the mysterious inner workings of a man's brain. How can women know what men are really looking for if men don't tell them?

They can ask Janis.

With over fourteen years of experience as a professional matchmaker, Janis Spindel has a unique insider's perspective on contemporary dating culture. All her clients are men, and they tell her exactly what they want in a relationship. Janis offers women a step-by-step plan for winning a man's heart, such as:
• It's okay to ask a guy for his number, as long as you do it with confidence
• Don't wear your work clothes on a date, ever! Freshen up before meeting a guy
• Pay him a compliment—he's human. He'll love it.

Entertaining and empowering, What Men Really Want is the next best thing to a private appointment with the nation's premier matchmaker.

Deborah Bigelow - Library Journal

Spindel has assembled this dating guide based on her 13 years of successful professional matchmaking and understanding of what men want in a relationship. Using client quotes, real situations, and reflective questions, she offers advice on every aspect of dating, from where to meet potential dates to breaking up with unsuitable partners. Topics like what to talk about on the first date, how long to wait until having sex, and when to start meeting the other party's friends are considered. The courage to be honest as a factor in desirability is repeated throughout the text. The book's layout is appealing and the author's tone respectful of the reader and her clients. Recommended for all libraries.

Biography

JANIS SPINDEL, president and founder of Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking, Inc., has more than 750 marriages to her credit. She has appeared on CBS The Early Show, NBC The Weekend Today Show, 60 Minutes II, and Fox and Friends, and has been featured in the New York Times, the New Yorker, New York Magazine, and the Wall Street Journal.