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Self-defeating behavior is the single most common reason that people seek psychotherapy. It is a poison, preventing us from achieving the love, success, and happiness we want in our lives. And what's really frustrating is feeling we have to change and not knowing how -- or knowing how but being unable to stick with change. Get Out of Your Own Way is an antidote -- it explains why we sabotage ourselves, going back to childhood origins of various behaviors. More important, it offers a proven course of action to transform behavior from self-defeating to life-enhancing.
With anecdotes and usable insights drawn from twenty years of psychiatric clinical practice, Dr. Mark Goulston shares ideas that have helped thousands of patients overcome pain, fear, and confusion -- to approach life's challenges with dignity, wisdom, courage, and even humor. Get Out of Your Own Way provides practical steps toward change that you can work into your everyday life, so you can stop being your own worst enemy -- and become your own best friend.
Self-defeating behavior is the single most common reason that people seek psychotherapy. This psychiatrist's practical action plan for transforming behavior from self-defeating to life-enhancing provides proven steps that show how to change 40 behaviors, including procrastination, guilt, and anger.
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November 07, 2002: This book is a paradox. Usually I can't read more than 30-40 pages of a self-help book without putting it down and often not picking it up for a few days or weeks and then having to start all over again from the beginning. I read this entire book in 90 minutes and I am not a fast reader. What I like most about it is that each 3-4 page chapter describing and correcting a common self-defeating behavior is longer than a handful of quotes, but shorter enough to keep my full attention. It was a little like eating pistachio nuts which I often keep eating until my fingers are raw. In this case I kept reading GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY until I was done and my life was changed.
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June 28, 2002: That this book is easy and fun to read does not mean it is light weight. Filled with insight, pith, and poignancy it is one the most enjoyable and usable self-help books I have ever read. I have given a copy to everyone I care about and all of them were appreciative.